The love language Quality Time is all about being together. But it goes further than that, it is about being together and giving each other your undivided attention. It is not about taking your wife out to dinner and then spending all your time on your cell phone. It is not about sitting down to have a conversation with her while the tv is on, which will constantly distract your attention. It is about choosing to do things together that one of you love to do, or both of you love to do. It is about taking time for each other to have quality conversations, really focusing on each other and how you are doing.
If you or your spouse are a Quality Time love language person, it is a person who loves to be with their spouse. Even if it is going grocery shopping because they know they can get some one on one time with you. If you or your spouse are a Quality Time love language, this a person who loves to have your undivided attention, who loves to sit and talk to you without any distractions, who loves to hang out with you wherever it is because you are giving them your time and attention.
One of the important aspects of Quality Time is quality conversation, this is where you really talk to your spouse. You don't just let them do all the talking. The two of you share your hopes, thoughts, dreams, aspirations, disappontments, etc. If you are not a talker and your spouse is a Quality Time person, you need to develop ways in which you can share your thoughts more readily with your spouse. If your spouse is a Quality Time person, it means a lot to them to have you learn to engage in quality conversation, this helps them to feel very loved by you because you are taking the time to let them know how you really feel and what you think even if it is hard for you to say.
If you feel you don't have the time to take them out or to sit down and talk with them, MAKE THE TIME. Your marriage and your spouse is the most important thing to make the time for.
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