Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Last Love Language-Physical Touch

I apologize that I am so back and forth on my blog, I hope to pick it up to one time a week.
The last Love Language is Physical Touch, this does not mean sex only.  Sex is a very important part of the love language but it also could mean: kisses, hugs, embraces, back rubs, foot rubs, brushing her hair, holding hands, touch of the shoulder when you pass by etc.   The Physical Touch love language is giving physical touch.  It is important to communicate what you do like and don't.  Maybe one spouse whos love language is Physical Touch loves it when they are given back rubs, but another spouse's whos love language is physical touch may not like back rubs, but loves to snuggle with their spouse.  The great thing is... it is touch, ALL marriages need some kind of touch, so as you touch your spouse you learn, and if they don't like it, do something else. 
Please remember that sex is very important if this is a primary love language.  If you have a hard time with it, you need to talk to your spouse and work out ways for sex to be a positive and enjoyable experience for both, and not just to do it because this is your spouse's primary love language.  Sex is meant to be enjoyed, trust me if you openly communicate it can be enjoyable for both.  Maybe every once in a while you agree to have sex because your spouse wants it,  but generally once you get started you both end up enjoying it.  Physical Touch is great, the more you touch, the more you learn and love.

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